Promiscuity is also something that does not make a good wife. Perhaps a little flirting at times is a good thing, and you do want her to be happy and have a good time. But when she blatantly flirts with others and acts like she likes them better than you, you will be very miserable. Most men do not want their wives to date or have sex with other men. There are exceptions to this, and if that is your thing, then this one won’t be a problem for you. But for the vast majority of men, a woman who is sleeping around with a lot of men, or even other women, is not going to be a good wife.