Selfishness is a good place to start. A woman who knows what she wants and who isn’t afraid to speak her mind is appealing to most men. After all, she was selfish when she decided she wanted you so that in itself isn’t bad. But when she takes that to an extreme, it can make for a very sad marriage. When the woman cares only about herself, her own wants and needs, and does not care about anyone else, then she is not good wife material. She will have you always giving, and it will never be enough because her appetite for her own selfishness will only grow larger over time. It is a good idea to find out how selfish she will be before you get too serious because extremely selfish women do not make good brides.